After a long debate<\/strike> discussion with hubby last night, we<\/strike> he has finally decided to engage a CL. I told him that with both his mum and my mum helping me out together with a maid, we don’t really need a CL.\u00a0 All my reasoning was rebuffed by him.\u00a0 Well, what can I do now but to accept his decision coz he’s going to pay for the CL.\u00a0I\u00a0don’t want him to say “I told\u00a0you so\u00a0to get a CL in the first place” to me in the event the original plan did not work out well.\u00a0 What he said is quite true coz my delivery is not a normal vaginal birth.\u00a0 It will be my 3rd C-section and for the first week, I will not be able to get up to do anything as\u00a0my wound will be too painful for me to get up and handle the baby.\u00a0 I can’t expect my mum to wake up a few times in a night to help change the baby’s diapers as my mum has high blood pressure and can’t take sleepless nights.\u00a0 My hubby has also said he can’t\u00a0help out at night\u00a0as he has to work the following day.\u00a0 So his decision is final, he will hire a CL and my next task is to find one who’s good.<\/p>\n

Thank you everyone for all your suggestions and confinement stories.\u00a0 To those of you who did not have a CL, my hats off to you wonderful tough ladies!<\/p>\n

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