6 June 2024: An Unfortunate Thursday

Our Thursday started like any other day. Little did we know that it would take a tumultuous turn at 9.30 p.m., casting a shadow over what was supposed to be a normal evening at home. It all began innocently enough, with Alycia back from university and ate some fruits. Then she headed to the kitchen to wash a glass bowl after a meal.

The tranquility was shattered by a sudden, ear-splitting crack of glass, followed by Alycia’s piercing screams for help. Rushing to her side, we (Sherilyn, Cass and I) were met with a horrifying scene – her hands were cut, blood flowing freely, and the pain etched on her face told a story of its own. As someone with a high pain threshold, I knew this was serious.

Without a moment’s hesitation, I sprang into action, grabbing a cloth to staunch the bleeding and instructing Alycia to apply pressure to the wound. With a sense of urgency, we raced to the nearest hospital in our neighborhood, only to be met with the harsh reality that it wasn’t our insurance company’s designated facility.

The medical officer’s grave assessment sent shivers down our spines – Alycia’s wound was deep, possibly involving a cut tendon and nerves, necessitating immediate surgery. This would mean going into the OT, which costs anywhere from RM10k to 20k upwards.  Despite the initial bandaging and anti-tetanus shot, we had to seek treatment at a hospital within our insurance coverage. I quickly called my insurance agent for her advice. Hubby who was having dinner at Hartamas sped to the hospital to settle the bill and to comfort us.  We then went home first to pack Alycia’s bag. 

Next, the race against time led us to Pantai Medical Centre, Bangsar, only to encounter a shocking predicament – no available rooms due to full occupancy across the Klang Valley.  I was shocked and could not believe what the MO told us – that almost all the private hospitals in the Klang Valley had no rooms, even for emergencies.

Hubby then rushed us to Subang Jaya Medical Centre (SJMC), another hospital on our insurance panel.  Initially, we were also told that there were no rooms but thankfully, we got a bed in a 2-bedded room later.

As the night wore on, the saga unfolded with a series of challenges – from the hunt for a room to the unexpected allergic reaction Alycia experienced to the prescribed antibiotics and painkiller administered via IV.  Thankfully I discovered the allergy, which was mozzie-like bites on Alycia’s face and I informed the MO immediately.  The medicine was stopped immediately and replaced by steroids, via IV, to prevent the allergy.  Later, Alycia was taken for an X-ray of her injured left hand.  The rollercoaster of emotions and the suspense of waiting for surgical intervention gripped us in a web of anxiety and exhaustion.

As Alycia lay on the bed in the procedure room at the A&E, hubby threw up in the car park and had bad stomach pain. He suspected that it could be something he had eaten for dinner at the Korean restaurant a few hours earlier.

Something similar happened on the first day of Cass’ major surgery at Gleneagles Penang 15 years ago.  While Cass was in the OT, hubby was very sick and in the isolation ward in the same hospital, on suspicion of H1N1.  Can you see the creepy and perplexing coincidence?

Alycia finally checked into her room at around 2 am.  After I helped her to settle down, we went home. It was way past 3 am when I went to bed but I didn’t sleep soundly. I got up at 6 am as Cass has school and to feed Haru.

As the dawn broke on a new day, Alycia’s fate hung in the balance, awaiting her turn in the operating theater.  She is the 15th in line on the waiting list for the OT and the nurses cannot confirm what time her surgery will be. Alycia has just been informed that the surgery would be performed at night.

The uncertainty and anticipation weighed heavily on our hearts, yet amidst the chaos and turmoil, there was a flicker of hope – the unwavering support and unity that carried us through the storm.

At the A&E Procedure Room, SJMC

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Still Getting The Jitters

The one-week school holidays have just started for Cass. On Friday, instead of taking the school van back, she requested for me to fetch her home because she has to go for her figure skating class and doesn’t want to waste one hour in school waiting for the driver.

Since Alycia was home that day, I told her to drive to Cass’ school to allow her to drive on a route that she has not driven before. Since our house to the school is quite a distance with heavy traffic, it will be a great route for her to pick up new skills with me guiding her. Alycia is hardly at home and she only gets to drive during the weekends when she drives to her part-time job, which is just a 5-minute drive from home. I still get the jitters sitting next to Alycia when she drives, though she has improved from the first few times that she drove when she just got her driver’s license. She still has a lot of improvements to make before I can allow her to drive to university on her own, which is quite far from where we stay (KL to Sunway).

I still step on the imaginary brake sitting next to Alycia when she drives 😅

I wish I can be like my friends who have no worries letting their kids drive the car everywhere (even outstation) on their own right after they get their driver’s license.

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My Tumultuous Relationship with the Month of May

The month of May has always been a challenging time for me. Though I’m not superstitious, the coincidences surrounding this month are becoming increasingly hard to ignore. Each May seems to bring a new set of difficulties, and this year has been no exception.

The Nightmare of 2009

The saga began in May 2009 when my youngest daughter Cass who was 13 months old then underwent major surgery on her urinary tract to treat a Grade 3 Kidney Reflux and duplex kidney issue.  What should have been a straightforward recovery turned into a nightmare. On the second day post-surgery, a power failure happened. Then, Cass kept throwing up green stuff the moment she drank anything. Two harrowing weeks later and after a battery of invasive and non-invasive scans that couldn’t show where the problem was, her surgeon pushed her into the OT and opened up her abdomen to perform an emergency surgery.  There was a kink at the end of her intestines, that was causing all the vomiting, a post-surgery complication that is not unusual for an abdomen surgery. My three-week nightmarish stay at Gleneagles Medical Centre in Penang with Cass was one of the most harrowing experiences of my life. The constant anxiety and the emotional toll of watching my daughter suffer were unbearable.

My Own Health Struggles

May continues to be a challenging month for me in subsequent years. In May 2017, I underwent a laparoscopic myomectomy to remove a fibroid in my uterus. The following year, also in the month of May, I faced another medical issue when I had to have a tooth removed, which came with its own set of complications.

This May, I’m battling a painful callus on the side of my left foot. Despite using topical medication for over two months, the pain persists, and I may have to see a doctor if it doesn’t improve soon. The discomfort it causes while walking is a constant reminder of my tumultuous relationship with this month.

The PC Cable Incident

Just last week, as if to add to my woes, the cable connecting my PC snapped unexpectedly, with sparks of fire flying. This incident left me unable to use my PC for a day. Thankfully, the damage was limited to the cable, and the internal electrical parts of my motherboard were unharmed. But the suddenness of the event was a stark reminder of how unpredictable May can be.

The part circled in red is where sparks of fire flew off all of a sudden. A similar issue happened last May. Can you believe how creepy this is?!

A Shocking Email from Alycia’s University

Today, I was jolted awake at 5:45 AM by an alarming email from Alycia’s university titled “Unsatisfactory Attendance Report.” The email stated that Alycia’s attendance had fallen below the minimum requirement and that an Unsatisfactory Attendance Report (UAR) had been issued. It mentioned that the university is required to report its activities to the Ministry of Education Malaysia (MOE), the Immigration Department of Malaysia (IDM), validating partners, and professional bodies that accredit its programs and graduates. The tone of the email made it sound as if my daughter had committed a serious offense.

Knowing Alycia to be an obedient and diligent student since young, I was deeply concerned. My first thought was whether the university might rescind her scholarship. I quickly forwarded the email to Alycia, seeking an explanation. Alycia was as shocked as I was and assured me that she had not missed any classes. She also mentioned that a friend of hers had received a similar email yesterday despite having perfect attendance. This led me to suspect a technical glitch.

Indeed, the information in the email was contradictory. It stated that Alycia had been absent from class, yet the provided table showed zero sessions missed. Finally, after a tense morning, Alycia received a message from her university informing her of a technical glitch in the system. I also received an apology email from the university, confirming the error. What a relief! 

Hoping for Brighter Days Ahead

As I navigate through the challenges that May brings, I can’t help but hope for better days ahead. Despite the rocky start, I remain optimistic that the remainder of the month will bring peace and positive experiences for me and my family.

Here’s to turning the tide and making the rest of May a month of resilience and triumph.

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Camera Crumbs

A dump of my camera crumbs to document the joyful moments here.

There’s Pang Cha everywhere in Bangkok but mind you, their signature shaved ice dessert is pretty steep (around RM30+ after conversion). I don’t mind paying just to try the delicious-looking cold dessert from this MICHELIN-recommended tea boutique but it looks really sweet too, which made me reluctant to buy.
I told myself that I must try their milk tea or dessert but alas, I had to give it a miss as we didn’t have enough time. Another reason is there’s no one to share it with me. Alycia is lactose-intolerant and I couldn’t finish the entire bowl of dessert or entire cup of tea myself. The serving is huge.
This photo was taken at the airport on the day of our departure.

Pang Cha with condensed milk.

Throughout our 3 nights in Bangkok, Alycia had late night supper of junk food in the hotel room while playing with her phone while I was in lalaland. This is what holidays and happy memories are made of – fun and junk food, all rolled up into one happy ball!

Next to go on a holiday with me will be Sherilyn!

I love the buffet breakfast at Novotel Platinum hotel. They have a good spread of quality healthy foods for health freaks like me. Every morning, I went to the coffee house to have breakfast at 8am while Alycia was still asleep. I started my day with some fresh fruits, cold pressed fruit juice, and a bowl of plain Greek yogurt topped with fresh acai berries, cut fruits, seeds, and nuts. This would be followed by the mains of eggs, greens, meat and some desserts. And not forgetting my must-have cuppa coffee. I tried their pulled Thai milk tea but it was too sweet for my liking.

Coconut balls (onde-onde) are one of my favorite desserts at Novotel.

Mushroom pasta with caviar, by chef Sherilyn during her semester break.

Carrot cupcakes made by Sherilyn for Cass’ 16th birthday on 9 April 2024. The orange color on the carrots was made from real carrot juice while the green color was from matcha powder.

Happy Sweet 16, Cassandra! May all your birthday wishes come true.

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Bangkok Trip With Alycia – Day 2, King Power Mahanakhon SkyWalk

Ticket price > RM132.35 per pax, pre-purchased from Klook.com

Package Type > Mahanakhon Skywalk + 78th Floor Rooftop Ticket

Participation Time > Sunset Time (16:00-19:00)

After a day of shopping, we reached the King Power Mahanakhon for our much-awaited walk on the glass floor on the 78th floor rooftop of the building at 4pm. It never struck me that I would chicken out until I was at the edge of the observatory deck, where the glass floor was beneath 🥶

King Power Mahanakhon is a supertall skyscraper in Bangkok. The skyscraper was built in 2016, and became the tallest building in Bangkok, standing at 314 meters (1,030 feet) tall.

At the King Power building

Alycia using a QR code to open a locker (free of charge) to keep our bags and shopping loot. Water bottles are not allowed too.

The below picture almost didn’t materialize. Alycia my daredevil jumped right onto the glass tray without an ounce of phobia but for me, the moment my foot almost touched the glass tray and I looked down, I chickened out and retreated. I told Alycia that I wasn’t sure if I could do it and she said “you paid so much for it and don’t want to do it now? You’re wasting your money!”

After braving myself to do it, I put my both my palms on the edge, then feet down (like how a toddler would go down the bed), and finally stood up. Then posed a bit for the camera. The trick is – just DO NOT LOOK DOWN. 🤪

Everyone waited at the observatory deck under the hot sun for almost two hours for the sunset view. Though very hot, it was very breezy.

Sun finally going down after hours of waiting.

Tourists from all over the world scrambled to get the best sunset view.

After the Skywalk, we took a Grab car to TOOKPAK – ถูกปาก Stadium One for a sumptuous dinner of Thai food.

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Shopping And Eating in Bangkok

Day 2, 16 April 2024

After our Mahanakhon Skywalk adventure, Alycia and I took a Grab car to Tookpak at Stadium One for dinner. Tookpak, with a Google Review rating of 4.8, was recommended to us by hubby’s second sister in Hong Kong.

Fish paste with coconut shoots green curry – we requested for the green curry to be only mildly spicy as Alycia cannot stomach spicy food. The fish paste was superb – it reminds me of the fish balls that my late maternal grandma made from mackerel fish.

Fried rice with generous amount of real crab meat.

Stuffed fried crabs

Tookpak at Stadium One. We enjoyed our dinner thoroughly.

1,054 Bhat or about RM136 for only 3 dishes. Pretty costly but worth every Bhat as the food was very good.

Alycia’s first experience on a tuk tuk while I had ridden on them many times before during my trips to Hatyai with my parents.

Initially the tuk tuk driver wanted to charge us 300 Bhat (about RM39) for a 20-minute ride but when we complained that it was expensive, he lowered the price to 250 Bhat (about RM32). It was still expensive but we jumped on it anyway as I wanted Alycia to experience it. Our verdict – better stick to Grab cars as it was very hot on the tuk tuk 😅

Snack of pandan croffle and strawberry smoothie before going up for our Skywalk.

After dinner at Tookpak, we walked to a nearby 7-11 as Alycia wanted to try the sandwiches while I bought some Thai toiletries. While walking along the street, we chanced upon this dessert shop and went in to have a look.

And we ordered a bowl to try. Yummy and refreshing but too sweet for health freak mommy 😜

At Siam Square. We managed to shop for some clothes here.
At Siam Square

This building at Siam Square resembles a tin. So cute.

Mango-sticky rice dessert again. The heart shaped thingy is coconut ice cream.

Clothing stall at DD Mall. We took the 250 Bhat tuk tuk to this mall just because Alycia wanted to get a t-shirt that her bestie has that was bought from DD Mall last year.

Very tempted to buy these crew socks for Cass but I wasn’t sure if she would like them. Crew socks are now in fashion, and worn with chunky platform Crocs. I saw many tourists spotting this trend in footwear. What a fashion 😂

Alycia finally found the t-shirt (not the one in this pic) that her bestie has and she bought it in a heartbeat. It’s not cheap though at 490 Bhat. She’s a very happy camper now and we could only leave the mall after she hunted down the tee.
Our next destination – another mall, by Grab car this time.

To be continued…

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Alycia’s Heart-Stopping Moment Before Taylor Swift’s Concert in Singapore

Today, Alycia experienced a heart-stopping moment that sent waves of panic through our household. With her eagerly anticipated trip to Singapore to attend Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour concert looming on the horizon, the last thing she expected was to face a potential nightmare.

After a long day at university, Alycia made a detour to Sunway Pyramid to exchange some Singaporean currency. Little did she know that this seemingly routine errand would lead to a frantic search for her identity card, her lifeline amid her upcoming adventure. Without her IC, she would not have been able to board the flight to Singapore on Saturday morning or enter Singapore by land.

As Alycia stepped through the threshold of our home, her panicked voice filled the air as she confessed to losing her identity card. My heart sank as I watched her in distress, knowing the implications of such a loss on her impending trip. With a calm demeanor, I guided her through the steps of retracing her movements, urging her to remain composed amidst the chaos.

First, we reached out to the money changer where she had conducted her transaction, hoping against hope that her identity card was still there. Despite our efforts, the staff claimed no knowledge of her missing card, plunging Alycia deeper into despair.

Alycia also made a call to the Lost & Found Dept. to inquire about her lost IC. While there was a lost IC but it wasn’t hers.

Refusing to concede defeat, I suggested contacting the security department of Sunway Pyramid to review the CCTV footage from the time of her visit to the money changer counter. As Alycia’s high school best friend Elly, a beacon of support and solidarity, rushed to her aid, I could only pray for a swift resolution to this nerve-wracking ordeal.  Thank God Elly was still in the university, which is just a 10-15 minute walk to Sunway Pyramid via a connecting bridge. Elly rushed to the money changer counter.

With bated breath, Alycia awaited news of any potential sightings of her lost identity card. The weight of uncertainty hung heavy in the air, threatening to shatter her childhood dreams of attending the concert she had long awaited.

Then, like a beacon of hope in the darkness, Elly delivered the news we had been desperately hoping for – Alycia’s identity card had been found at the money changer. Relief washed over us like a tidal wave as Alycia’s tears of anguish gave way to tears of gratitude and joy.

Praise the Lord!

As Alycia dashed to Sunway Pyramid to reclaim her lost identity card and to have dinner with Elly afterward, I couldn’t help but marvel at the resilience and determination she displayed in the face of adversity. As of typing this post, Alycia is still not back home yet. She’s still having dinner with Elly, with the dinner on Alycia to thank her bestie for helping her out.

Alycia’s heart-stopping moment became a lesson in resilience, resourcefulness, and gratitude. As she prepares to embark on her journey to Singapore, I have no doubt that she will carry this experience with her for life, ensuring she remains ever-vigilant and extra careful with important documents and belongings. Just one moment of neglect can be a life time of regret!

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Navigating University Life

As the pages of time turn swiftly, my two older daughters find themselves embarking on different chapters of their university lives. Alycia, my eldest, is gearing up for her fourth and final year which will commence in September this year, while Sherilyn, my middle child, eagerly anticipates the commencement of her degree studies after she completes the Foundation in Natural and Built Environments in August this year.

Alycia: A Transition to Internship and Beyond

Alycia, on the brink of turning 21 in December, stands at the cusp of a significant transition. With her fourth year in university approaching, the prospect of internships looms on the horizon. Conversations with her now involve discussions about the corporate world and makeup—an aspect she finds more of a necessity/chore than a pleasure. The carefree days of primary school seem like a recent memory to me, and yet, the responsibilities of adulthood beckon. As she reluctantly put on a light touch of makeup for a friend’s birthday party just now, the realization of soon entering the professional realm begins to dawn.

Alycia’s recent assignment from her Strategic Advertising class – a postcard to create awareness on diabetes in Malaysia. She did this postcard from scratch, from the design to the text, caption, to sourcing for a printing shop to have the postcard printed.

The back of the postcard, which even comes with a QR code.

Sherilyn: Dance, Dreams, and Degree Studies

Starting her first year of degree studies in September this year, Sherilyn passionately returns to her love for dance. A few months’ hiatus recently due to a foot injury hasn’t deterred her spirit. Balancing academia and her devotion to dance, Sherilyn actively attends classes at two different studios—one near her university in Subang and another closer to home. Dance remains her first love, and while she dreams of pursuing a degree in performing arts, my old-school convictions nudge me towards a more conventional path. I am still of the opinion that one cannot make a comfortable living being a dancer / dance teacher / entertainer in Malaysia. Correct me if I’m wrong to have this opinion.

Throwback photo of Sherilyn’s lunch box of ramen with unagi, air-fried chicken chop, avocado and seaweed. She still brings a bento box to uni on most days. She complains that the food sold on campus is too expensive (like over RM15 for a simple plate of economy rice), so she brings food from home.

Another throwback photo of Sherilyn’s lunch box to uni – boiled pork + chives dumplings made by a Taiwanese housewife.

My hopes echo a universal sentiment: that whatever career path my daughters choose, it will bring them joy, a stress-free life, and the means to live comfortably.

As a parent, my aspirations for my daughters extend beyond academic achievements. Their pursuit of happiness and fulfillment in their chosen paths takes precedence. The pages of my two older daughters’ university journey turn, and I, as their mother and cheerleader, eagerly await the chapters that unfold, praying and hoping that they will make right choices in life.

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A Pricey Black Friday

iCrash: Alycia’s iPad Mishap

Alycia returned home from a friend’s birthday party, panic evident in her voice the moment she stepped into the house. She had unwittingly smashed her iPad that’s not even 6 months old with her friend’s car door. When I saw the damage, I felt my heart shatter, just like the iPad.

OUCH!! Badly shattered LCD. My heart is just as shattered 😫

Alycia relies on her iPad for her university studies, making it an essential tool for her. With a broken iPad, we faced two choices: either invest in a new one which costs almost RM3k, or bear the cost of repair. Either way, it was an unexpected financial burden that we had to address promptly.

We turned to hubby’s friend, who runs a computer repair shop, for a professional assessment. The verdict? The repair would set us back RM1,100, with a reasonable 6-month warranty. While it was reassuring to know that the damage could be fixed, it wasn’t a budget-friendly solution. Nevertheless, we decided to go ahead with the repair as it was still cheaper than investing in a brand-new iPad.

Eyeing New Expenses: Sherilyn’s Eyeglasses

As if the iPad fiasco wasn’t enough, a day earlier, Sherilyn approached me with another unforeseen expense… on top of all her medical and physiotherapy expenses incurred as a result of injuring her foot. The frame of her eyeglasses had met an unfortunate fate – it was irreparably broken. The only viable solution was to invest in a new frame, which came with a price tag of at least RM300.

They say that raising children takes a village, and I really think that it also takes a considerable amount of money to raise each child. With three daughters, we often find ourselves navigating a financial rollercoaster, with each twist and turn revealing new expenses, every single month 🥲

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The Ticket Triumph – Someone Snagged Taylor Swift’s Singapore Concert Ticket!

Every fan has a dream of experiencing their favorite artist’s live performance, and for Alycia, that dream is about to come true. After years of longing and patiently waiting, Alycia’s persistence has paid off today.

While Alycia didn’t manage to get into the ticketing website to purchase the ticket, her friend’s mom managed to secure the tickets for her own family, Alycia and a few other friends to attend Taylor Swift’s highly anticipated concert in Singapore in March 2024.

Alycia’s admiration for Taylor Swift began when she was just 11 years old and in primary school, precisely 9 years ago. Back then, she begged me to let her attend Taylor’s concert, but due to various reasons, I had to say no. As a compromise, I bought her a pair of Keds Taylor Swift sneakers (with Swift’s signature on the shoes), which helped alleviate some of her disappointment.

Down memory lane: Alycia, then 11 years old with her newly bought pair of Keds Taylor Swift sneakers on 24 Augusut 2014.

Fast forward to the present day, the long-awaited opportunity finally presented itself and Alycia’s dream is now about to become a reality. Alycia and her friends have to look for an Air BNB unit in JB and purchase the return bus tickets. From JB, they will take the KTM Shuttle Train to Singapore, which only takes 5 minutes and costs only RM5. I heard from Alycia that her friend is already in the midst of booking the Air BNB!  

It is going to be so exciting for Alycia and her friends to immerse themselves in the electrifying ambiance of Taylor Swift’s concert in Singapore next March.

Are you a Swifty too? Did you manage to snag Taylor Swift’s Singapore concert tix today?

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My Life In Photos The Past Week

Alycia is having a one month semester break and classes will only resume on 25th April. As she hardly goes out to exercise under the sun, I dragged her out to walk with me to the nearby kopitiam to have breakfast last Saturday morning.

And here we are at the open air kopitiam, sweating buckets with no fan and no air conditioner, and the both of us slurped down a bowl of hot noodles, which made us sweat even more profusely. This kind of sweating is even more intense than working out. I felt like I was being baked inside a sauna. We walked under the blistering 11-ish sun, and then chomped down noodles in piping hot soup, alfresco style with only trees above us as shade in temperatures ranging from 37-40C 🥵.

Darn the milk tea. After downing the glass of milk tea, I had insomnia the entire night. Again, albeit drinking it before 12 noon. As I age, my body can’t tolerate the caffeine in tea as much as I could previously.

After we were done eating, we walked to the supermarket to get some veggies and then walked home in the searing afternoon sun, ouch! But it feels good to soak in the glorious sunlight, get our dose of vitamin D and serotonin (aka the feel-good hormone).

And I always slather sun block lotion on every part of my exposed skin before going out in the sun.

Cass who doesn’t like to walk and sweat under the sun didn’t join us. She asked me to snap photos of the Western food stall menu and text her the menu for her to choose 🙄

After eating food at the Aeon supermarket for 2 weeks, Sherilyn started to get bored of the food. So she cooked food for her lunch box the night before and brought this with her to work. She cooked Chicken Breast Sous Vide (using the Thermomix), cooked black rice + 10-grain rice and sliced up half an avocado. She only works twice a week at Barcook Bakery @ The Gardens Mall.

With the current heatwave in our country, I find myself dreading the thought of stepping into a hot kitchen to cook. So I opt for simpler meals that require minimal preparation and don’t involve stir-frying or requiring me to stand next to the hot stove for a long time.

Even cooking this simple dish of steamed egg with minced pork made me sweat buckets, though I just took a shower before cooking. After cooking, I had to shower again, which was my 4th shower of the day.

Lunner for Cass when she came home from school at 3.40pm ~ steamed egg with minced pork, blanched siew pak choy with olive oil, soy sauce + fried garlic, black rice with sweet potato and dim sum items from brunch with hubs this morning. The olive oil is only drizzled onto the veggies after they’re removed from the pot, so that we reap the full health benefits of it.

Brunch of dim sum and curry noodles with hubs in the morning

Dim Sum @ Jin Xuan Hong Kong Restaurant, Kuchai Lama.

Curry noodles ordered from a coffee shop a few shops away from the dim sum restaurant.

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Saturday, 27 August 2022

Maria finally came back to work after a hiatus of almost two months caused by severe morning sickness and subsequently a D&C as she had a molar pregnancy and other gynecological issues. I had that familiar feeling of relief each time she came back after a long break. Our ceiling fans and windows had not been cleaned since Maria last came. She gave our fans and windows a good scrub when she came back on Wednesday. Gawd, the amount of dust and dirt that was wiped off! I’m so glad that Maria’s back. Even Haru was happy to see Maria. Haru kept tapping on Maria’s ankle and chased her old friend around as if to say ‘hello’ 😸

Alycia started uni last week. Her tribe of friends who were the closest to her the past one year when they were pursuing Foundation in Arts in college had a farewell trip to Malacca recently. Alycia made two separate trips to Malacca with her two groups of friends. It’s their farewell trip coz after the trip, many of them will go separate ways. Some of them will be going overseas and some pursuing law, accountancy, music and other disciplines. Alycia has a couple of FIA mates who are taking the same course as her.

I hardly see Alycia these days. She leaves the house early in the morning and only comes home after 9pm. She eats all her meals at the campus with her course mates. Assignments are mostly done on campus as it’s more conducive. Most students stay on campus to study and to complete assignments. The uni is closed at 2am. Don’t worry, there’s a police station on campus. Another reason why she comes home late is to skip the peak periods to avoid paying almost double for Grab fare. Speaking of Grab fare, Alycia spends almost RM1.5k per month just on Grab! It’s time for her to drive to campus but she can’t find the time to practise driving with me. And I still have no confidence in her driving skill yet 🥶🤪

Haru on Sherilyn’s lap as the scaredy pussy was afraid of the thunder again! She was literally paralyzed by fear, so much that even with the aroma of chicken (her favorite food) just inches away from her mouth, she was emotionless 😹
I wonder how Haru’s going to survive being away from home at a cat sitter’s house when we go back to Ipoh in December!

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Saturday, 13 August 2022

Today has been an eventful day. Haru has been throwing up the whole day. We had a family lunch to attend at Oversea Restaurant @ Imbi and by the time we reached home, the vet’s clinic was 20 minutes away from closing. I begged the doctor to wait for me as I had a cat that’s been vomiting all day. As my car is still in the workshop, I had to wait for hubs to send us there. But he had a tummy ache and needed to get his fix first 😲

I was so worried that the vet would have left by the time we were there. Fortunately he waited for us. Haru was given a jab and some tablets. The vet told us not to feed Haru any solid food but to give her water.

Back home, after we gave Haru several sips of water from her baby milk bottle, she threw up again. When Cass tried to pick Haru up, the vomit splattered onto her hair and clothes 🤮 and Cass ended up having to take a shower. I also had vomit on my hands the whole day. Haru would barf around the house. Since last night, we had to walk around the house to hunt for her barf. She would puke on the floor behind my computer, under the dining table, at the entrance of the house, under the sofa, outside the room. OMG, I was so terribly enervated yesterday having to wipe barf off the floors the entire day, wipe Haru after she’s done vomiting, attend a family gathering, rush to the vet, on top of doing house chores. Maria is still not back at work yet as she’s still recuperating after a D&C performed last week. I was really worried when Haru vomited slimy saliva late at night despite the jab and two tablets that she’d taken.

By the way, Maria did return the RM500 that she borrowed from me, albeit 3 days later.

Thank God, Haru stopped vomiting the next day. She started to eat wet cat food again in the morning where I only gave her 1/3 of the packet, another 1/3 of the packet four hours later and the remaining food in the evening.

After a stressful day, I received the best piece of news late at night. Alycia’s Foundation In Arts final semester exam results were out and she earned a CGPA of 3.98, which means that she’ll be qualified to receive a RM15,000 scholarship from the university for her first year of degree studies. To qualify for the scholarship, a student has to consistently earn a CGPA at 3.65 and above in all three exams each year.

Alycia has to continue to study very hard to maintain a CGPA at 3.65 in all her exams so that she continues to receive a scholarship from the university in her second and third year of studies as well.

This pampered pussy gave us all a big scare! I must be very careful with what I use to wipe the floor as I suspect that she licked the hand sanitizer that I used to wipe the edges of the floor to kill an infestation of ants. Or it could be she had indigestion as she ate quite a bit of pork (from the watercress soup that the mil boiled) the past few days; her tummy was really bloated.
I asked the vet why is Haru still so skinny despite having 4 meals a day. The vet commented that Haru is not skinny but fat! Really? I’m not an expert in cats but I don’t think Haru is anywhere near fat 😸

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Wednesday, 20 July 2022 ~ Random Updates

I just realized that I have not updated this blog for 10 days. As you might already have guessed, I’ve been up to my eyeballs with work – house work this time. Maria our part-time maid of 10 years is pregnant with her second child and has been riddled with bad morning sickness. She’s not come in for work for two weeks.

With the mil still not 100% recovered from her second cataract eye surgery, I have to cook, though not every day. Cooking is not something that I look forward to do ever since my last live-in maid went back to Indonesia for good 11 years ago, but would still do it when I’m in the mood.

With Maria pregnant now, I can foresee that she may not come back to work for us. Even before she got pregnant, she’s been getting jobs from other employers who are paying her higher than what we’re paying her.

With this scenario, I’ll have to start looking for another part-time helper. I may even have to learn to live without any helper at all. It’s not that bad an idea as I’ll be able to save a lot of money each month. I can definitely live with dusty ceiling fans and windows 🤑

The girls and I are also happy with Shopee Food and Grab Food several times a week 😁 as no one likes to wash the dirty dishes and keep them after washing.

Alycia returned to college last Tuesday after testing negative for Covid. However, she’s still having intermittent cough and have lost her sense of smell partially. She told me that her food lacked taste a couple of days after she tested negative. I think this is caused by her blocked nasal. As of today, her olfaction has improved and she can taste her food better, though not 100%.

I totally forgot that I have a box of Lian Hua in our larder. I bought it 4 months ago when our neighborhood pharmacy restocked it. When I was looking for my vitamins, I stumbled upon it. But Alycia had already tested negative. I still gave her two sachets (1 sachet a day). She said the taste is bearable, not as icky as she had thought. A box of 6 sachets costs a frigging RM48!
Something simple that I cooked the other day – air-fried butter and garlic pollock.
Seasoned with melted ghee, minced garlic, pinch of salt and dried herbs, lemon juice and black pepper.
My keto dinner – air-fried pollock on a bed of spinach.
Cass made frozen yogurt bites and yogurt bark using Gippsland strawberries and cream twist yogurt. They don’t look pretty but are yums! I love it and it’s a healthier alternative to ice-cream.

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Alycia’s Covid Infection: Day 4 – 7

By day 4, most of the classic symptoms of Covid crept out — sore throat and high fever. On day 5, the fever subsided but Alycia started to have cough and a bad throat.

Since Alycia had a zero-symptom Covid infection three months ago and is now infected again, I think she got infected by Omnicron BA.5, the new subvariant. BA.5 is now dominant in the US and has already landed in our shores. I hope none of us in the house will get infected as BA.5 is highly contagious and much more contagious than the previous versions.

Alycia’s well fed and hydrated all day. She gets honey lemon juice in the morning and in the evening. Mid morning after her breakfast she downs a mug of thick matcha powder tea. And in the afternoon she downs a mug of fresh coconut water. In between she drinks lots of plain water. She has 3 main meals and snacks in between. Her room is sanitized twice a day. My life since Monday revolves around prepping her meals, buying coconut water, sanitizing her room and the house, washing/sanitizing the toilet after Alycia uses it, and washing my hands like a hyper OCD lunatic 🤧 😷

Day 5 brekkie – egg and kale mayo with multigrain bun, sweet corn and orange and thick matcha tea.
Day 5 lunch – MIL bought healthy pan mee from an organic shop.
Day 5 dinner – Alycia requested for bread with strawberry jam as her throat hurt badly. MIL boiled a big pot of watercress + loh hon guo cooling drink for everyone.
Day 6 brekkie – chives and minced pork dumplings, veggies, red bean tong sui, black grapes, banana and thick matcha tea.

Day 6 dinner – air fried mini drummets, braised duck and veggies. Fruit – guavas and watercress + loh hon guo drink.
Air fried mini drummets marinated with turmeric powder, soy sauce, oyster sauce and corn flour.

Day 7 brekkie – Gippsland strawberry and cream twist yoghurt with walnut and watermelon seeds, Sanwa soda crackers, jackfruit and blush pear.
Day 7 lunch and dinner – Wantan noodles with broccoli + alfalfa sprouts, tau foo far and soy bean milk from Dao.

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Alycia’s Covid Infection – Day 2 & 3

6 July 2022 – The Covid self-test kit showed a faint line on the T window. Alycia is still feeling well and chirpy. The first symptom however crept out late in the evening with a scratchy throat. Alycia asked for lozenges and I gave her my honey and propolis lozenges that I kept in the fridge for emergency use.

7 July 2022 – The line on the T window is very clear this morning. Her temperature in the morning was 37.7C and shot up to 39C in the late evening. Alycia popped 2 Panadol today. I bought coconut water today and gave her a big mug. By late evening when her body was burning hot, she felt unwell and antsy. For once, she slept at 9-ish p.m.

Alycia’s four classmates/group assignment team mates who are also down with Covid are having fever as well, except for a dude who has no symptoms. Classes for them are via online mode until they are all well enough to return to campus.

Besides prepping her meals, my entire day revolves around sanitizing the house and bathroom (after each use), especially Alycia’s room.

As per her high school’s SOP on Covid prevention, Cass has to stay home for three days, as well as perform a Covid self-test twice. Her teachers arranged for life online classes for her.

Alycia’s room service meals:

Day 2 brekkie – Nama Shokupan bread with strawberry jam, mushroom omelette, banana and blush pear.
Day 2 lunch – chap fan, green tea, cut papaya and longan.
Day 2 dinner – air-fried boneless chicken chop.
Day 3 brekkie – Yee Mee soup with lots of veggies, black fungus, poached egg and minced pork.
Fruits – red dragon fruit and papaya. And a cup of thick matcha.

Day 3 dinner – vermicelli with beef and beef balls, raw broccoli and alfalfa sprouts, dessert of matcha red bean swiss roll and orange.

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HEALTH FREAK MOMMY