Life has an uncanny ability to throw unexpected curveballs our way, reminding us of its fragility and unpredictability. Over the past month, I was confronted with this truth when I learned of the untimely passing of two friends. Their deaths served as a poignant reminder to cherish each day and embrace life with no regrets.
The first friend who passed on is the father of Sherilyn’s good friend from kindergarten and primary school. Sherilyn used to hang out at this friend’s house quite frequently when they were in primary school. Sherilyn sometimes had dinner together with her friend and her family. Recently Sherilyn discovered from another friend that the father of her close friend had passed away unexpectedly due to a freak accident at work. The friend’s father is about the same age as me.
The news of his passing sent shockwaves through our hearts, leaving us grappling with the fragility of life. It reminded us that life’s uncertainties can shatter our sense of security in an instant. The pain and loss experienced by the family taught us to cherish the time we have with our loved ones, as we never truly know what tomorrow holds.
The second friend who recently passed on is my neighbor. Within our condo, there was a spirited and vivacious lady who did her morning or evening walks every day, brimming with life and positive energy. Despite her age of 78, she exuded vitality and became a source of inspiration for many. During the lockdowns I often had the pleasure of joining her during our walks, engaging in cheerful conversations that brightened our days.
However, her sudden absence at the condo grounds raised concerns, leading me to inquire about her well-being. Tragically, I discovered today from her daughter that she had succumbed to cancer. It was devastating to learn that this seemingly healthy and vibrant woman had battled both colon and pancreatic cancer within a short span of time. She fought valiantly but, unfortunately, lost her life only eight days after receiving her pancreatic cancer diagnosis. She had Stage II colon cancer last year and the surgery to remove the tumor was a success. Eight months later, she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and lost the battle.
Her story served as a stark reminder that life’s challenges can strike unexpectedly, regardless of our apparent health or vitality. It underscored the importance of cherishing our health, being proactive in our well-being, and never taking a single day for granted.
The loss of these two friends has left a profound impact on my perspective of life. Their passing has reinforced the fragile nature of our existence and the urgent need to seize every moment. Life’s uncertainties compel us to live each day to the fullest, nurturing relationships, pursuing our passions, and embracing opportunities with vigor and enthusiasm.
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