Welcome October 2024!! As we step into the last quarter of 2024, I’m reflecting on how fast the year has flown by and how busy life has become for everyone in the family. My three daughters are all moving full steam ahead with their studies, hobbies, and personal goals, each on a unique journey. Here’s a brief update on where each of them stands as we begin this new month.
Alycia and Sherilyn: Deep into University Life
Alycia and Sherilyn are now in their third week of the new academic year at university, and their schedules are as hectic as ever. Both girls leave the house early in the morning and don’t return until late evening, consumed by classes and extracurricular activities.
For Alycia, this is her final year, and the workload is more intense. On top of that, she has evening classes that seem to fill up most of her days. She’s been looking forward to a well-deserved break, and in just three weeks, she’ll be heading to South Korea with her friend/colleague for a week-long holiday. I’m sure it will be a wonderful experience for her to unwind before diving back into the final stretch of her university life.
Last Friday Alycia went for an interview for her three-month internship set to take place next year. A few days later, the company called her to offer her the job. I hope she will enjoy work life and meet people who will uplift her and be helpful to her.
Sherilyn, on the other hand, has an even more jam-packed schedule. As a first-year student in architecture, her course demands a lot of time and effort. Yet, she still finds the energy to be deeply involved in her university’s Barista Club and Dance Club, which are her passions. In addition, she continues to attend dance classes at two different studios late in the evenings. I admire her dedication, but I also hope she’s not stretching herself too thin.
Cass: Balancing School and Skating
Cass is gearing up for her Senior High 1 (Form 4) Final Exam, taking place soon. It’s hard to believe that she’ll be sitting for her SPM exam in just a year. On top of her studies, Cass is also preparing for her figure skating test (Free Style 1), which is an exciting milestone. She’s been going to the skating rink three times a week and training intensively both on-ice and off-ice. There’s a possibility she might participate in one or two more skating competitions next year, even though it will be her SPM year. While I’m naturally concerned about how she’ll balance everything, she reassures me that her skating won’t interfere with her studies. I can only trust her judgment and hope for the best.
As for Me: Battling Tennis Elbow and Juggling Everything
On a more personal note, my own challenges have been catching up with me. The pain in my right hand from tennis elbow hasn’t improved one bit, mainly because I’ve had no rest at all. With Maria, our part-time helper, still out of commission due to severe morning sickness in the early stages of her pregnancy, I’ve had to take on all the household chores. It’s been nearly a month without her help, and I’m feeling the strain, both mentally and physically.
To make matters worse, I’m not sure when Maria will be able to return. Even if her morning sickness subsides, she might not be in full form to work. Plus, she will eventually need to take time off to give birth and return to Indonesia for several months. I’m trying to prepare myself for managing without her help, but it’s a daunting thought.
Looking Ahead
As we welcome October, I wish nothing but success and happiness for my daughters in their studies and future endeavors. They all have their individual dreams, and as a mother, my greatest hope is to see them thrive. As for myself, I’ll have to muster the strength to push through the challenges ahead.
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