Update on Alycia’s Injured Finger: A Six-Week Journey to Recovery

Friday, 19 July 2024 ~ Today marks exactly six weeks since Alycia’s freakish kitchen mishap that almost cost her a finger. The journey has been long and painful, but we are finally seeing some progress.

After six weeks of keeping her injured finger in a splint and her entire left hand wrapped in a big bandage, Alycia finally had them removed. I could feel her relief too! The moment was a significant milestone in her recovery. While the finger is still stiff, removing the splint and bandage is a positive step forward. Alycia must now focus on finger exercises to regain mobility. The surgeon commented that the stiffness on the finger is caused by scars on the tendons as well as scars on the skin.

Despite the progress, Alycia’s finger is not out of the woods yet. If there is not much improvement in two weeks, she may have to see a physiotherapist twice a week. To avoid this, which adds to the cost and time, I constantly remind Alycia to diligently perform her finger exercises. We are hopeful that with consistent effort, her finger’s mobility will improve, and she can avoid additional therapy.

After the doctor’s appointment, we decided to celebrate Alycia’s progress with a lunch at SJMC’s cafe. Alycia ordered lasagna, which she said tasted very much like the one her dad makes in his central kitchen. It was a comforting and delicious meal after weeks of hospital visits and treatments.

To further celebrate the removal of the splint and bandage, Alycia requested a sofuto from Family Mart. She chose a matcha sofuto, her favorite. It was a small but meaningful treat to mark a big step in her recovery journey.

While Alycia still has a bit of a journey ahead, the removal of the splint and bandage is a significant milestone. We are optimistic that with continued finger exercises, she will regain full mobility in her injured finger.  

Hubby kept telling us that he had a similar accident when he cut his third finger with a pen knife when he was 17 years old. This resulted in his finger being stitched up in a clinic. That was 36 years ago and in those days, accidents like this did not require reconstruction in the OT or physiotherapy. After the accident, he could not bend his third finger for a long time and it took him over a year before he could finally bend it. He reassured Alycia that her finger would regain full mobility in time to come.

Injuries can be a tough test of patience and resilience, but Alycia has shown remarkable strength throughout her recovery journey. With the splint and bandage now off, we are hopeful for continued progress. The next couple of weeks are crucial, and we will be there every step of the way to support Alycia. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for a speedy recovery and no need for physiotherapy.

The doctor going through the sets of finger exercises with Alycia. Thank God the removal of the splint wasn’t as painful as the removal of stitches, which were done two weeks ago.

Delish lasagna with salad at Cafe 35 @ SJMC

This eco-friendly & green-concept restaurant at the lobby of the Outpatient Centre serves affordable, tasty, and freshly prepared Western & Asian food. The cafe is clean and comfy.

Complimentary fruit-infused water.

Alycia’s first meal in six weeks without a bandage on her left hand.

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Family-Friendly Weddings: What to Consider

Planning a wedding can be stressful enough without having to accommodate the needs of children and extended family members. However, with some thoughtful planning and preparation, you can create a wedding celebration that is enjoyable for guests of all ages. Here are some tips for putting together a family-friendly wedding that will be memorable for everyone involved.

  1. Choosing Activities for Kids

When kids are part of the guest list, it’s important to have activities planned to keep them engaged and entertained throughout the day. Set up a supervised kids’ area with crafts and games, and even hire a professional babysitter or two to oversee activities. Have toys on hand like colouring books and board games so kids can have fun while parents mingle and dance. Consider scheduling dedicated times for kids’ activities like face painting or lawn games before the ceremony or during cocktail hour.

  1. Providing Guest Accommodation

If you’ll have lots of out-of-town guests, especially those travelling with children, arrange for affordable local accommodations like discounted hotel blocks, rental homes, or campgrounds. This gives families more flexibility and convenience as they won’t have to worry about driving long distances late at night after the reception ends. Provide guests with a list of family-friendly restaurants, parks, museums, and other attractions in the area they can enjoy as well.

  1. Choosing the Right Menu

Cater your reception menu to appeal to all ages and tastes. Include kid-friendly fare like chicken fingers, mac and cheese, and fresh fruit. You can even add a separate kids’ buffet table if you want. For adult guests, offer selections like steak, salmon, pasta, and hearty sides. And don’t forget dessert—cupcakes and ice cream sundaes are always crowd-pleasers! Having options ensures every guest can find something appealing.

  1. Picking the Perfect Venue

When kids and extended family are involved, you’ll likely need more space than for an intimate adults-only affair. Consider outdoor or rural venues where kids can run around freely and safely. Barns, farms, parks, and gardens provide beautiful backdrops for family weddings. Shropshire offers a wealth of stunning rural wedding venues perfect for larger gatherings.

Shropshire’s top wedding venue provides fabulous settings to host your family celebration in the countryside. With Shropshire weddings, you can find the ideal venue for your special day. From grand estates to quaint halls, weddings in Shropshire offer spacious outdoor areas for kids and large banquet halls to accommodate your guest list.

  1. Entertainment for All

It’s important to have entertainment and music that appeals to both kids and adults. Consider hiring a magician or caricature artist to delight kids during the cocktail hour. For dancing, opt for a DJ or band that plays hits across multiple decades and genres. You can even get the kids involved by adding classic party games like limbo or karaoke. The key is having a variety of interactive entertainment to keep all guests engaged.

Planning a family-friendly wedding does take some extra forethought and effort. However, choosing the right venue, menu, entertainment, and activities can result in a celebration that delights guests of all ages.

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