Lady’s Finger Flower

Have you seen a lady’s finger flower before? 🌼 My 83-year-old dad planted this in a small pot from seeds… and now it keeps giving us fresh lady’s fingers! 💚 Simple joys from dad’s garden. Follow my Facebook page for more updates, and videos 🌿 No. of times viewed = 18

First Class Honours, Fully Exempted PTPTN — What a Blessing!

Today I am a very, very happy mama again! My eldest daughter, Alycia, just shared wonderful news with me — her application for PTPTN loan repayment exemption has been approved! This means her PTPTN loan has now been fully converted into a scholarship because she graduated with First Class Honours. What a blessing! I am…

Strength Training In The Gym With my 80-Year Old Mum

Two weeks ago, my 80-year old mum and I attended a strength training workshop at IFC Gym Ipoh — the only gym in Ipoh that currently offers strength training classes specially designed for senior citizens. Since last year, my mum has been experiencing chronic aches and pains throughout her body, especially in the mornings when…

Pre-Birthday Celebration

A week before my birthday, my younger brother Roy came back to Ipoh to celebrate with me. We had a really lovely dinner together at Hanz & Jane Cafe. The café has such pretty, dreamy décor — very Insta-worthy — and they were playing Norah Jones–style jazz in the background, which made the whole place…

Cass Did It — A Proud Mum’s Day

Today I am a very proud mum. After 17+ years of waiting for this day, Cass did it. With zero tuition since Form 1 — because she chose to let me channel the tuition funds into her figure skating instead — and even having a UTI attack on the last day of SPM, and me…

53 and Feeling So Loved — My Most Surprising Birthday Yet

In my 53 years on this earth, I don’t think I’ve ever had so many birthday surprises in one year. And the surprises just kept coming. On the eve of the eve of my birthday (Friday night), Alycia gave me the first big surprise. Shortly after midnight, she suddenly appeared in Ipoh! Her best friend…

A Mother’s Flash Cards, 20 Years Later

Recently my mum was spring-cleaning the cupboard where she keeps all our old treasures — things from my pre-teen days right up to items that belonged to my three girls when they were babies. She has always been such a careful keeper of memories. Among the things she found was a stack of flash cards…

One Cloth, Many Uses: Why the Disposable Dry Electrostatic Multipurpose Cloth Is Worth Trying

One of the simplest cleaning items I’ve used for many years at home — and honestly didn’t expect to like this much — is this disposable dry electrostatic multipurpose cloth. It looks very basic at first glance, but it’s surprisingly versatile and practical for everyday cleaning. You can use it dry to sweep the floor…

Walking the Pasar Malam with My parents… 30+ Years Later

It’s been decades since I last visited the pasar malam in my childhood neighbourhood of Ipoh Garden East. Tonight, I came back with my parents — now both in their 80s. The pasar malam felt so long, with endless stalls selling all kinds of delicious food… not exactly the healthy kind 😄 but so nostalgic….

Aro Restaurant, Ipoh (South Indian Cuisine)

If you’re exploring Ipoh Old Town and craving something different from the usual local fare, we recently discovered a hidden gem — Aro Restaurant, located just a few minutes’ walk from the famous Concubine Lane. This cozy South Indian restaurant serves up hearty, traditional meals that truly hit the spot. We ordered their mutton nasi…

Healthy, Crunchy & Perimenopause-Friendly: My Favourite Seed Snacks

I recently received a parcel from Lazada filled with some of the simplest yet most nourishing snacks — lightly roasted melon seeds, pumpkin seeds, and sunflower seeds. No heavy seasoning, no added sugar — just clean, wholesome crunch. As someone navigating perimenopause and trying to reduce sugar intake, finding snacks that are both satisfying and…